Crap guys, I think I figured out the SOT thing. My dealer is a half hour away so I couldn't update while driving. But while I was driving, I called the manager and he said that the price updated in the system on my order (it was $96k I think). I asked him if SOT stuck and he said it did.
So when we were putting in the order, the salesman, manager, and myself were all looking at their order interface screen. I went though every check box to see if I wanted it or not. There is a subsection that lists the tops and door options. Then, there is a long list of all the mopar add on stuff (all the aftermarket stuff). The SOT option was for some reason embedded in that stuff instead of being up in the section about tops and doors.
If a salesperson didn't know that, they would just look at the top/door section of their order screen and see dual top, hard top, soft top, but no SOT since it wasn't there in the correct place.
If any of you want to order it, maybe try calling your dealer back to see if it can be changed. Maybe risky business though since it sounds like orders are spent already.
Welp, with that order frenzy, doubt I'll get the AEV, but oh well. Happy I just got my VON in time.