I am encouraging everyone I can NOT to get the XR package. And no, it's not because I don't think it's worth it, it's because I want there to be less of them out there.

I absolutely love mine after only 2 days and I am insanely glad that I bit off the extra $4k. It's set up nearly perfectly for me. I MAY go up to 37s or 38s, but I actually really like the XR wheels, and they will handle Nitto RG 38x12.50s and so can the 4:56 gears, so it's a win/win/win.
This thing is nearly 3 inches taller than my 2020 Rubicon was with 35s on 20" wheels, but it rides like a Cadillac in comparison. Not to mention this 470HP V8 is already getting better mileage than my 3.6 with a stick! Unreal. It's maybe just a tiny bit less enjoyable to drive an automatic, but the sound and sheer thrust of this beast definitely make up for missing the manual.
But yeah... I'd recommend that you stick with a non-XR. It's really not worth the extra cash.