This 1000%. Choose your crowd depending on your activities.
Similar to others, I busted my azz for many years (still do & about to turn 50) and have been lucky to make good professional choices. My wife & choose not to have any kids, but we do live in a pretty high-end neighborhood and enjoy our lives with vacations & nice things. This doesn't mean we're not cool people & deserve to act like d$cks that are everywhere. But over the years, I've definitely noticed that my "golf bros" are a completely different crowd than my blue-collar pals.
I'm a drummer in an area coverband and have tons of local & non-local musician friends. A lot of these people barely scrape by (especially living in the DC area where we live), so I try to avoid any convos about money. It might be awkward for them if my 392 is parked next to their 15y/o Honda since it doesn't usually draw a lot of parallels as far as lifestyles...but I'm not apologizing for my hard work & mindset. And I happen to love my Jeep...maybe they don't care about their Honda (or cars in general) and that's cool too. I can't control others jealous insecurities, but I can decide to be a cool person to anyone I meet...provided they're the same towards me.