I agree, to each his own, but you really didn't answer my question. Maybe that's because you really don't know the answer. So you like the TRX better... you don't really have a reason other than the blower whine and apparently it's not a "one trick pony." OK... that's totally fine. I like the TRX too. You don't need a reason. I simply asked to try to help you get to the answer you were purportedly looking for. But it sounds like you also don't really need our opinions on what to do about your new daily driver despite the last line in your post being ... "opinions appreciated."
The cynical side of me thinks the whole point of this post was to let us all know about the "cool" vehicles you have (or have had) while still being unsatisfied. But again, that's just the cynical me talking.
Now... if you really want our opinions, here it is: If you buy a V6 Wrangler and do NOT get a stick, then you made a mistake. The ONLY reason to get the V6 gas wrangler is for the stick. If you want an auto, ANY other engine option will be better. Don't want a 4 cylinder turbo? Get a Diesel (although not an option on a 2 door). Don't want a Diesel? Get a 3.6 Manual. There. Now you have the only answer you need to your quesiton. You're welcome.